Reason for Absence and 10th month

hey guys!,
i'm sorry for replying being alittle late. i was in Chicago with my matesprit for a field trip from 6:45 am til about 12:07 am (the bus ride from east Lansing Michigan to Chicago and back was long. as well aas walking all day does take ones mind off alot of things.) long story short: beginning was alittle rough but as the day progressed had a good time over all adn got some stuff on the way back. but that aside, today marks the tenth month of matespritship (for those who don't know quadrants *its a homestuck term. ill explain it if you'd like me to. feel free to ask* it's basically a bf/gf. i've been in a relationship for about 10 months now.)  damn.. it's double digits now. never in all my history on this has something like this lasted this long. usually i either blow up on how rude the guy is being, impatient on how obivious the guy is being about the flushing or even just tired of it all. though one time it was an agree ment but that doesnt count but my first one the guy did split the matespritship which was really hard at first to get over. now i know theres better fish in the sea for that.(yes my quadrant story is alittle shaky but im making it as brief as possible. it would proubly be dull anyways telling the whole story of it all.)sure, we still have our flaws that irritate us but we still get along. to even to the point during chicago he said one day when i live on my own he said i was going to be under his health insurance when he lives on his own*put the pieces together there.*  which kinda got me quiet for a secound. i was flattered really and from him saying that relizing hes thinking the very same thing i've been thinking for awhile... never in all the years ive been here i would've thought i would end up filling matespritship with someone who loves coding and hacking but it works though because we fill eachothers gaps in what we need. both hobby wise and emotionally wise. so i have to be thankful on that as well. if we end up living in california together later on for our careers years later so be it. if not it was fun as it lasted but over all i can say this on no matter what turn happens: im thankful he has made me become and still cheering me onward on becoming a better person over all. creating memories in proubly will never forget no matter how may years or sweeps it takes. without him none of these memories or firsts in alot of things would've never happened and i would proubly still be more of a emotional ticking time bomb. no matter how much he whines i should proubly think that more but thats just me*shrugs* im sorry im getting all mushy here. i guess when the 4th of every month happens to come around this is what happens *shrugs*we both agree troll wise we would proubly sollux and karkat on this one. so to dedicate this month mark here's a video