gender rant(rant so read at your own risk)

*warning this is just my opion. its not gold and if by any means i'vre offended or are not correct in some points let me know*

hey guys,
kinda want to talk about gender here at this point here. I know its been forever seeing a post and some of my art work has been transfered to my tumblr but kinda want to touch base on this topic. Why? well to be hoest I'm kinda tired of thw who " death of cis" or " that any non binary people's gender is no valid" kinda talk around. were all people and all should be respected eually here. bu before putting opions down lets set some facts straight.

first, gender=sex is a total lie here.  mostly gender  roles how there usually are seen are totally social constructs. so how people see gender =sex is all depended on how society is and is always changing. so the whole blue is for boys, pink is for girls is all just social stuff playing. sex has to do with the biological part a person is given in terms of reproduction. it doesnt have to do with personalities or what that person is into. all physical here. gender is what that person idenitifies as, such as if your more on the masculine side when it comes to id yourself you will present yourself more by wearing more jeans and button up shirts. this is gender expression here but even if lets just say that person cant replace there wardrobe and has to wear dresses that does not mean there gender right off the bat is a women. we should instead of assuming just go up and ask people, " hi nice to  meet you. what are you pronouns?" werid but makes that person feel valaid in what they are.

fact two, if someone was to ask what my gender is I'm Bigender. hee's the definition for it by the gender wiki.
Bigender is a gender identity which can be literally translated as 'two genders' or 'double gender'. Bigender people experience exactly two gender identities, either simultaneously or varying between the two. These two gender identities could be male and female, but could also include non-binary identities. For other identities for those who experience multiple genders, please see multigender.

Bigender people may also identify as multigender, non-binary and/or transgender. If a bigender person feels that their identity changes over time or depending on circumstance, they may also identify as genderfluid, which describes any person whose gender identity varies over time.

Bigender people can have any gender expression but many prefer to be seen as androgynous and/or change their presentation to be more masculine or feminine depending on their current identity. Bigender people may experience dysphoria in which they want their body to reflect traits from two distinct sexes, or experience dysphoria at some times but not others. However, not all bigender people experience dysphoria. Some bigender people may choose to transition so that their body more closely matches their gender identity

so yep im basically a gender that uses prnounes of he, she, they, them or even just my name. that aside that does not mean sexuality wise im bi. no i still am attracted to masculine individuals more, regardless of me having two genders.


now through the main point here. yes, im technically non-binary so me being sick of both cis (people who gender idnity matches there sex.)  and non binary people always going neck on neck with eachother. like we all want to be treated fairly. sure, to the cis people here non binary people may seem strange and sometimes down right confusing but having patience and acceptance is key. for the non binary people like me, yes it does get extremly annoying wiht most of society revoles around the cis gender but that shouldnt really mean we should constantly shame all cis gender people to blame for every little thing that society is functioning currently. we were lets face it for generations to be raised with only two genders in the united states its going to be very diffiult to shift. jut be patient and correct politely but that doesnt mean those handful of people who actually do harm shouldnt be put into court or anything. just dont blame every single cis gender for what a handful has done. we just need to educate more as well as a ton of patience . in time it will be more accepted. even for someone a confusing as a bigender like me.